You can spend your life any way you want to, but you can only spend it once. -Dwight Thompson

Would you go to an all Black church or a church where you were the minor...

God loves u perfectly & He sees u clothed in Jesus' righteousness. Nothing u do will ever change that!

Proverbs 18:4 oooh, i like! & Proverbs 15:4! These are our promises, our title deeds if you will, from God, for those who are in Christ Jesus. WOOT-WOOT!

You may be deceived if u trust too much, but u will live in torment if u don't trust enough. -Frank Crane

JohnCMaxwell: It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not. -Andre Gide. Be true to yourself.

16 Year Old EX CUTTER

MY LIFE AS A STUD by Jackie Hill OFFICIAL P4CM POET

Soul Ties

I MIGHT'VE SHARED THIS ON HERE BEFORE,BUT IT'S SO GOOD, I GOTTA POST IT ONE. MORE. TIME!

Why I'm not MARRIED

deep. . .this video def hit home-things i have myself dabbled with, & i've seen others struggle or become caught-up in. . . no condemnation for those who are in Christ folks, but we gotta face the music and trust our Holy Spirit to guide us through and out of our messiness. . .

Has anybody ever called you UGLY? Meet the khloe kardashian of the Bible.

'When you don't have a plan, your vision is only a possibility.' Apostle G. Maldonado

Boy Meets Girl: Say Hello to CourtshipSex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is) - A Study Guide for Men
Sex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is) - A Study Guide for Women
Sex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is): Sexual Purity in a Lust-Saturated World
curently reading: sex is not the problem (lust is) & boy meets girl: say hello to courtship
both are by joshua harris {good read!!}

We are not put here to choose our destiny, but rather, to DISCOVER it.

Are you truly in love with your marriage- potential? Or are you in love with the concept of love? If ya can't say amen, say 'ouch!'

"God have us all the same amount of rope; we can either make a bow, or hang ourselves."

We have to force ourselves to move past current day thinking into generational thinking. -Elder Michelle Johnston

People of God, we MUST take a stand, for His sake. 'If the foundations (of a nation) be destroyed, what will the righteous do?' Do your research. Pray. Vote.

I despair in my own strength. I have no other option but to throw myself on God's grace (empowering presence strengthening me).

Rest does not mean inactivity; rest is Holy Spirit-led activity. So, let's get crackin! =)

just in case you were interested. definetly a good read.  =)

Yo! This dude just walked in my church off the street and gave his life to Christ! GLORY!!! That's what i'm TALKIN BOUT!!

There is ALWAYS a CHOICE.

10 ways to know if you're un-equally yoked in your relationship.

What's up with Christians Dating Un-believers?

Let's stop the madness!!! Love yourself enough and trust Him enough to wait on God to present 'potentials'!!!

5 Dumb Reasons Why I Would not Marry a White girl. (I know it seems strange, but, stay with me on this one....)

Singles, need to allow God to present to us our 'potentials' so-to-speak, and put our foolish standards aside. . . . :)

Romas Chp 15 v 1-3
Those of us who are strong and able in the faith need to step in and lend a hand to those who falter, and not just do what is most convenient for us. Strength is for service, not status. Each one of us needs to look after the good of the people around us, asking ourselves, “How can I help?” That’s exactly what Jesus did. He didn’t make it easy for himself by avoiding people’s troubles, but waded right in and helped out. “I took on the troubles of the troubled,” is the way Scripture puts it. (MSG)

'Trust is built one block at a time, but when it is violated the entire wall comes crashing down.'-David Branker

Thank you Lord for imprinting yourself on us, Your children.

It's amazing how much we as followers of Christ take so much of what we've been taught as truth, never searching the scriptures ourselves to know for certain.

'How cloudy our understanding of purity has become these days! We esteem purity too little and desire it too late.'- Joshua Harris

I'm slightly agitated. I'm in the process of searching for various topics/posts/articles/web videos on the web for singlehood in Christ, and some of the stuff I'm seeing is grievous to me. for example, my web search pulls up a lot of stuff for christian-single dating and 1.99 per minute hotlines/chat rooms. . . .or articles from pastors that-i choose to believe meant well when they put their sermon's together-are telling singles to marry because it is God's will for them, and therefore sin to remain single. . . .i mean, come on. and yes, they are allowed to make mistakes. yes, they are humans that bleed and sweat just like me. i am just urked that there are well known leaders in the Body of Christ teaching on singleness without consulting the Holy Spirit.
maybe these leaders honestly believe that, if someone is single, they are no doubt fornicating or masturbating period, end of discussion. but, that is NOT so, and marriage is not a 'cure'. marriage will not solve these emotional and/or spiritual issues [if anything, a person will bring these things into their marriage if they don't hand these issues over to God]. only the Blood of Jesus can, and did, do that. the Word of God [bible] helps with the transformation-of-one's-thinking process, and prayer. where are the Singles in Christ that are taking a stand for holiness at? where are the success-stories?? sad to say, they are few. and that's a cryin shame.

Singles, beware! If you find yourself always wishing to be married, you may marry, see all that is required of you, and wish you were single again.

Do you give of yourself physically or emotionally in ways you will regret when married?

"God's wisdom must become the first set of criteria used in our decision making. We must define truth by Him."

The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settle for.

"Any time we allow someone to displace God as the focus of our affection, we've moved from innocent appreciation of some one's beauty or personality to the dangerous realm of infatuation... We become idolaters, bowing to someone other than God, hoping that this person will meet our needs and bring fulfillment." - Joshua Harris -I Kissed Dating Goodbye

Yo. I am definitely adding this to the list for Living Single!!!! : )

If you are looking for mess, Mess will find you. If you are looking for drama, Drama will find you. Send out the notice: 'Your drama/mess is not allowed here!'

Everything - Tye Tribbett

another song i hope will help you in your worship experiance with Father God. . . : D

Chasing After You (The Morning Song)- Tye Tribbett & G.A.

we need to get more serious about our worship, starting with me. . . .

Soul Ties

Gospel Mime, Silent Scream

If you are still single, it's because God isn't ready to share you yet.

Jealously is nothing more than insecurities being voiced and acted upon.

I'm beginning to understand why my father said he wishes at times he could go back and redeem some of those naps he ignored as a child. . . ::Yawn::

If you seek Him first, your days will get better-not worse!

Don't get caught up in what you perceive others have. Be happy for others, but be about your own business. What does God have for YOU this fine day? Hmmm?

Psalm 62:1

Don't allow anyone's foolishness to rent space in your brain! You have ENOUGH (maybe too much already) to think about. . . . :)

Beware of people who consistantly put you down. Because of their own low self-esteem, they are seeking others to recruit.

Before you take a new job position, study the environment. You might just want to stay where you're at for a while. . . .

'Once saved, always saved' is only true if we're really walking this walk. Salvation is a gift. Don't think you can mock God by purposely continuing on in sin.

Hate is just a coward's way of showing you they're intimidated. :) Pray that they find their identity in Christ.

All My Devotion Was Emotion.

ALMOST (saved) by Official P4CM Poet Ezekiel Azonwu

Dating advice for the New Year

"You Just Never Know" by Official P4CM Poet Prophet

don't ge caught up in what others think/may think of you. if we look to please others, we will lose our true identity-the Righteousness of God in Christ. ain't nothin greater!!!

Why do we run from relationship to relationship? Shouldn't we focus as singles on the most important relationship we'll ever have?

Ladies, your biological clock is not your top priority, your relationship with God IS.

Love NEVER gives up.

"Minister's talk about reaching the world. No one's reaching the world; they're not even reaching the ppl across the street."

I dare not trust the sweetest frame, but wholly lean on Jesus' name. (1 Peter 3v14)

Self esteem: how you SEE yourself, how you VALUE yourself. (External things are NOT you)

soooo tireddddd. . . Going to the Vic to learn. . . ::Yawn:: hope i don't fall asleep in church! 8-|

 If only the Body of Christ would come together in the faith! The DAMAGE we could do to the kingdom of darkness. . . Where are the people at that are truly in relationship with Christ? Not the fakers, rollers & shakers. Those that don't hold claim to traditions of men and doctrines of devils, but are moved only by their passion for their Creator? X-( We've got all this power from God inside of us, and we let satan tell us we are worthless, sinful and unworthy. But God declared us righteous. He calls us His son and daughters, we are given life eternal. Satan is a defeated, fallen angel whose time is short. God doesn't take away purpose. So satan must do what he was created to do: serve. He MUST get under our feet. He MUST leave us alone. So. How bout we stop running from him? He should be running from US!

Thank You, Lord, for heated buses. :)

God's rest comes from His Holy Spirit-led activities. Are we doing what God told us to do? Or are we busily trying to 'help' Him?

What is your motivation in relationships? Pleasing yourself, or serving others?

The most popular car among the wealthy? Ford Taurus. Stop trying to impress others. Our value is based on what Christ did for us. Period.

"Don't wake love up before its time" -Song of Solomon

Does your current relationship hinder you from serving God as a single person?

I am so over the notion of perfection. It is in my state of imperfection that the Perfect one is perfected in me. That revelation takes away all the pressure that I must somehow always get it right. "The last time I checked, none of us were floating. (Thanks RonJacob)". It's not that I'm sinless - it's just that I sin less!

"We christians can't run when things get tough. We are the fiber of this country."- Actor Jim Caviezel

"For since the world began, no ear has heard, no eye has seen a God like You; Who works for those who wait for Him." Isaiah 64:4

Where to go to vent when there is only you. . . A wise person surrounds their self with godly counsel. . .

day one

so. i have started a blog!!!! can you believe it?? 'if you can dream it, you can have it.'
this will hopefully help Singles in Christ. i hope it will help me as well.